This one is really hard for me and I think it is a bit of a repeat of be fair. "I made dinner, so you....." "I gave the kids a bath so you......" I worked all day on the yard so you..." I am a good one for calculations, I think I even keep a notebook in the back of my brain of all the things people owe me. Bad? I know and I'm tiring to change, but it is hard and I think I will struggle with this forever. I hope someday to take the notebook out and burn it and all the contents and not worry about what I do and others do. St. Therese wrote: "When one loves, one does not calculate." I guess I need to love more. What can I say?
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SO hard for women to do this. Me included. Good luck.
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